The TV blaring, the dog barking, the dishwasher running, the people ordering drinks at the bar — these are all things that can ruin a phone call, especially with someone you like.
You want to focus 100% on what they’re saying, and you want them to do the same.
It seems obvious, but it needs to be said: Your attention should be on the person you’re talking to, not the movie you’re watching, the dishes that need doing, or anything else. Plus, repeating yourself or asking someone else to will prevent things from flowing.
If you’re busy, ask if you can call them back, or set up a call when you know you’ll be in a quiet space and can really dedicate yourself to the conversation.
On the flip side, you don’t want to send a series of one- or two-word texts all within a short amount of time. Remember you can’t control what they do, but you can control what you do.
And setting the example is what you should be doing.
Not only do you get to hear their tone, but it’s also easier to go back and forth with little quips and jokes.
Before you call an online match, you should ask them if it’s OK to do so.
Usually, setting up the date within a week or two of the first online meeting is the way to go.
Online dating may not be as serious as running a country, but it’s still important to practice good manners.
You have a moment in there to send a quick message. You would think that this doesn’t need to be said, but it does.
We can’t stress enough how much poor grammar and spelling mistakes are an online dating no-no. Unless someone asks you for a photo of your Cyprian scepter or aphrodisiacal tennis court, as they called it in the 1600s, don’t send unsolicited sexts.
The longer you wait to meet in person, the longer you’re putting off seeing if the chemistry is there.